Hello. It's time for you to take a deep breath and relax. Allow me to ease some of the burden. For over 35 years, I have cared for individuals (like you or your loved ones), and understand the fear, frustration, and confusion associated with being a patient. Although I believe the intention of healthcare providers is good, we can do better...to sit and explain the diagnoses (and there's usually multiple issues occurring simultaneously), to sit and listen to the patient and loved ones. As a h...